In 1802 when she was 27, she received a marriage proposal from Harris Bigg Wither. She was friendly with the family and seems to have accepted the proposal on the grounds that she would have the status of marriage and a comfortable life... But overnight, she changed her mind and broke off the engagement. Harris was several years her junior and something of an awkward clumsy difficult young man… and Jane clearly felt that she could not marry without love or at least affection. In 1805, her father died suddenly, and Jane and her sister and mother were left not very well off. Her brothers contributed some money for their upkeep but they were starting in their careers and the money was limited. Jane had passed up the chance of marriage so she may have realised that she was likely to be a not very well off spinster. She loved her sister, but had a prickly relationship with her mother.
She Cassandra and Mrs Austen lived in Lodgings in Bath and sometimes
shared quarters with relatives including her brother Frank… A few years later,
however Edward Austen, one of her brothers, who had been adopted by a wealthy relative,
offered them a cottage on his property in Hampshire. Jane and her mother and
sister settled into Chawton Cottage and led a quiet life. They didn’t socialise much, except with
family and busied themselves with housekeeping and charity work. Jane was now able
to devote herself more to her writing and to concentrate on getting her mature
works published.
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