Silver Wedding V

Deirdre's mother Eileen worries about her daughter as well, telling her that she thinks she failed her. She allowed Deirdre to live a superficial life, trying hard to keep up with the Joneses, and never finding reality. Deirdre had been a bright student, but she gave up studying and the idea of working when she got married. She dedicated herself to trying to make out that Desmond was doing as well as Frank Quigley. She tells her mother that at home her parents seemed obsessed with social standing and getting on, and that she felt inferior to her sister who married a rich man. Eileen says that while Sophie, Maureen's mother and some of their friends were indeed obsessed by social ranking and appearances, she honestly just wished for her children to be happy. And now she fears that Deirdre is so fixated on superficial things that she will never learn to be happy. Deirdre continues to fuss about the whole issue of the wedding anniversary and the day finally arrives. Frank Quigley comes and so does Maureen. He talks to Helen and she seems calmer and more rational; she has given up the idea of being a nun.. He says that he knows of a woman who has a small child. She is a career woman, and needs someone to take care of him, and would she like the job? Helen gets on well with children and she says it might be easier than what she had been trying to do so she agrees to take it on for a while. Des is occupied with his new work as Mr Patel's partner, and does his best to tolerate Deirdre's fixation on the party. He is happy with the new shop, but it does not look as if his marriage will ever be a very close one. He knows that he has disappointed his wife, by the fact that they had to get married and then lost their baby who was the reason for the marriage.. and that his lack of success in big business made her unhappy. At the party, Fr Jim, who is still depressed about his nephew's misbehaviour, thinks that Desmond and Deirdre are still not really happy- they seem to him to be playing at being husband and wife.. As a priest, he should be glad that the marriage has lasted 25 years but it still does not seem real to him. But the party goes fairly well. Frank tells everyone that he and his wife Renata are going to adopt a child, from South America. Brigid the nun has helped him arrange it. So he has found a new centre for his marriage. Maureen is happier too because she has found her father, now a widower, and is thinking of opening a shop in the UK near where he lives. Anna who broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago, has a new admirer and is happy. Brendan is glad that he made the effort to come back for his parents but he prefers Ireland. Helen hopes her new job will work out and Eileen hopes that her daughter will be happy now that she has celebrated 25 years of marriage, but is glad to be with her new beau.